Wednesday, February 10, 2016

Be Happy Now

So many people put their joy on hold until they fulfill the great desire of their heart. Some singles are never pacified despite their achievement until they get married. Believe me if you are unhappy now because you have no spouse, you would still be unhappy after marriage.. A new phase in life comes with new challenges. Stop waiting for the perfect time. Be happy now. Make up your mind to be happy, it is your choice

Friday, November 27, 2015


It baffles me to see so many single ladies desperately in search of husbands. Do not get me wrong, I am totally in support of marriage but it should not be the only focus in ones life. Get a career, education, use whatever talent you have to help yourself and others around you. Above all build a good relationship with God, which will help you to sustain your marriage when it comes.
There are so many things you can achieve now as a single person that you may not find easy to achieve when children and family life begin. Be happy as a single, prepare yourself ready for marriage. Marriage will come at the right time.

Saturday, September 19, 2015


You cannot  chase happiness. It is not something  you pursue or you  can buy .
Happiness  is not something  outside, it is inside of you. Therefore until you make up your mind to be happy regardless  of your situation, you will continue  to seek happiness. Decide now to be happy, it's  already within you, just bring it out. Be happy!

Friday, June 26, 2015


Never expect things to just happen, struggle and make them happen. Make that great relationship, marriage to happen. Never yourself to be given a good value, create a value of your own. If you want to attract the best of the opposite sex, you must make yourself the best. You cannot be bronze and you are aiming for gold.
If you want the best marriage, relationships, put in more effort.

Thursday, March 5, 2015


Some people go into marital relationships believing love is enough to overcome all the challenges that marriage brings. Mind you,  I strongly support that love is the number one key for a successful  marriage. But love is certainly not enough.
Marriage is more than love, you need good attitude, financial resources and the support of God to make a success of it. When you go into marriage with the wrong attitude- Selfishness, Unforgiving attitude, Fault-finding, Seeking only your pleasure; your relationship is bound to hit the rock. In addition, it is foolhardy to believe that love can sustain your relationship without money. Both parties need to work hard to have enough money for your basic needs.
Above all, if you are one of those who do not believe in God or do not think they need the Creator to succeed in life, then do not venture into marriage. You must constantly pray for yourself, your partner and the entire family. Allow God to be the head of your home and then you will succeed.

Wednesday, January 21, 2015


One hurts you so that you may find someone who can heal you, if nobody is there to hurt you, you will never know  the person who cares for you.
Unfortunately some people get so discouraged by past hurts that they block anyone who tries to come close to them. Remember, when one road close, another opens.  Never give up!

Tuesday, October 21, 2014


Do not love the one who is beautiful or handsome for the world.  These are good qualities but it may not last and will certainly not sustain your relationship on the long run. Beauty  may fade away and that handsome, athletic looking guy may suddenly grow a big belly and lose appeal. 
But love the one who makes your world beautiful. Love the one who makes you feel good about yourself, who brings out the best in you. Love the one who appreciate you just as you are.
For the single ladies and men reading this, know that true love is very important in any marriage, without love, it won't last. So who do you love?

Monday, August 18, 2014


Many people spend time, energy and resources pursing what they believe will bring them  happiness. They pursue love as if it is only thing in the world. Some are so engross in amassing wealth and in the process forget their own physical well-being.
Friends, this is the time for self-examination, what do you really  think will makes you happy?
Haven answered that question, why don't you look for ways to create it instead of pursing it relentlessly therefore giving yourself unnecessary pressure and sometimes  frustration 
You create happiness by making others happy. By devoting your time, talent and money to give hope and joy to other people. By so doing,you will not only attract positive attention but have the lasting joy you crave for.
There is joy in sharing!

Wednesday, February 19, 2014


Single Sisters; Please do not stress yourself. Marriage is not by force. Don't force yourself on any man. Marriage is not easy. Spend  your precious time preparing yourself for your true husband. Remember, you should not only be physically and financially ready for marriage but you must be spiritually prepared to embark on the  journey.
Therefore get closer to God; make Him your friend and wait on Him to give you your right spouse.
Marriage is not a destination but a journey through life. Be prepared!