Thursday, September 29, 2011
As we go into the end of the year, while some people are already counting the wonderful blessings they have received this year, for some singles it is a time of anxiety. This is because they had given themselves the deadline to get married before the end of this year. For such people the remaining three months must manifest their desire, otherwise the year is seen as being unsuccessful. Relax! there is nothing wrong in having a goal, but don't allow it to become an obsession. Believe me, marriage is not something you calculate like mathematics. it will come at the right time. This is not the time to put pressure on your man to commit himself, let him make up his mind at his own pace. If you manipulate and rush him or her into marriage, there is a tendency that it will not last. Instead spend your time and energy your energy on building a good relationship that will endure the trials of marriage. In addition, equip yourself physically, economically, spiritually,materially so that you will have so much to contribute to your spouse and family when you eventually get married. And if you are one of the lucky ones getting married this year, a very big CONGRATULATION to you. Don't for get to invite us.